Visiting is not an easy thing for me. I don't have well-rounded interests and have lost track of popular culture because I haven't been watching TV or going to many movies most of my adult life. I lived in Canada for a long time and didn't have cable, so when I returned to the U.S. After 15 years, I haven't been able to follow what people refer to.

Sometimes it is easier to visit with internationals because they don't care about these things either.


Socializing with elderly people can be easier because they are the product of more innocent times.


But socializing can make me feel like people will notice that I was born, which makes me feel good.